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Understand Men | How to Understand What Men Want

Understand Men

“If Only I Could Understand Men….”

Ladies,

When it comes to ways to understand men, you got to think outside of your comfort zone. Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated.

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Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand men in order the know what they really want in a relationship. Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts.

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What’s a woman to do?

Rather than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is often more helpful to focus on a few areas that any woman can understand.

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1) Men are more sensitive than women. While some women might find that hard to believe, it’s true. Men don’t have the ability to recover from emotional trauma as effectively as a woman.

Because of this, men keep themselves from getting too upset. When a woman tells a man that he should “let his feelings out,” what he translates that to mean I want you to tell me how much you really love me.

2) Men hate fighting. A man would rather say what’s on his mind and walk away. Men don’t want to have those long fights that start in the evening and ends two days later. Once we say what we wanted to say, it’s over. At least that is what we think and wish would happen. One of the biggest problems most men have when it comes to fighting is that we can dish it, but we can’t take it.

Once a conflict becomes emotionally charged, it is very difficult for a man to contain those feelings and the most frequent coping skill is for them to become quiet. It may seem like they are punishing you, but they are most likely trying not to lose control.

3) Men want to get married. In spite of what many progressive cultures preach, the truth is that a majority of men in the world do get married. While the freedom of being single has its appeal, it comes with one primary drawback – it is lonely. It really sucks being alone and most men will tell you that if given a choice of being alone or being married they will pick marriage.

While this might not sound overly romantic, finding a woman that a man can trust is just as important as finding one who is beautiful. When a man opens up to a woman he don’t expect that woman to go an tell all of her girlfriends about how he finally open up.

Ladies do this sound like you…

When we first started dating he would take me to fun places and we would go out all the time. He would listen to everything I had to say and he understood what I was talking about.  Then suddenly, as if they knew they had reeled me in, they stopped trying.  They stopped calling as much, stopped taking me out and basically stopped being romantic.

What did I do wrong?

I just dont’ understand men because I think I’m attractive, I have a good personality and I work out to keep my body in nice shape.  So why then, do I always end up with the men who just come over to sit around my place and watch sports all evening.

What happen to the romance?

I see other women who, frankly, are not as attractive as I am or as thin as I am, who seem to get the “hot” men.  I don’t necessarily mean gorgeous men, but the men who take them to nice restaurants, bring them flowers, take them dancing and, basically, “court” them.

What secrets do they know that I don’t, because they certainly aren’t sharing them?”

Most women think a wonderful relationship is simply about finding the right man. The truth is that those women who have wonderful relationships didn’t necessarily know where to find good men, instead they attracted them.

What you are missing here is that you need to attract the right type of man.

Most women that find it hard to keep a good man always talk with another woman to find out what they are doing wrong. Big mistake. If you want to understand men, you need to talk to men.

Do you know of someone who has a pattern of always dating losers, bad boys, who always break their heart and leave them crying?

For those women, oftentimes they need help in identifying the signs of such unreliable men.

Understand Men – Picking Out A Loser

To me a loser is a man who is totally into himself and has little empathy for a woman’s needs. He is a man who has a pattern of sweet talking women in an attempt to sweep them off their feet and into the nearest bed. Player’s are more concern with how many women they can sleep with at one time. Players’s will wine and dine you and tell you how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have met you. Once they get into bed with you, your services are no longer required. This is especially true if you are lousy in bed. I hate to say this, but some women and men are just lousy when it comes to sex.

Players are wonderful in the beginning of a relationship; however, in time they most always become less attached and more distant to their partner. Some never call back, others break dates and some even “forget” their wallet and their date ends up paying for the meal.

Have you ever met or dated a man such as this? Perhaps he never said he loved you, and whenever you spoke about commitment, he would change the subject.

The truth is that no woman ever wakes up in the morning and says to herself, “Today I need to find a man who will hurt me”, but if you keep setting yourself up to get hurt…guess what. You will get hurt.

Rather what most often happens is that many women (and men) tend to confuse intensity with reliability. They meet someone who makes them FEEL wonderful or excited and they assume that he is a good man.

The problem isn’t that their feelings are wrong. What gets them into trouble is that their intense feelings often cause them to ignore bad or inconsistent behavior that they would clearly see if they were not so emotionally involved.

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Save A Marriage | How To Fix A Troubled Marriage

Save A Marriage

“Who Else Wants To Know How To Save A Marriage and Fix A Troubled Marriage?”

Dear Friend,

You can fix a troubled marriage and you can save a marriage if you have the right tools. I am here to help you fix your marriage and I just need to ask you a few questions first.

How troubled is your marriage?

Do you feel like your marriage is just rocky or is it falling into the gutter?

Even if your marriage is still just rocky, you need to take the time to help your troubled marriage. Those who are in a rocky marriage you will want to put a just a little bit more into the marriage.

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First, you need to do things around the house that you would normally need to be asked to do. Make the bed, do the laundry, help out a little bit. In a rocky marriage, only stress is your issue. You need to make sure that you help your mate during the rough times and be more emotionally and physically supportive.

You need to make her feel like she is needed, but not a slave. You also need to do things that make her feel attractive as well. You need to put forth some effort to make her feel wanted and beautiful. If you put more energy into your marriage, it won’t be rocky for long.

If you fear that you have put off the marriage for awhile then you are probably in a failing marriage.

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The reason why you are in a failing marriage is when things got rough you ignored the signs. You can’t ignore the signs of trouble in a marriage or you could end up in a very troubled spot. It can be difficult to fix a failing marriage. There will be resistance.

You not only need to put more energy forth into the marriage, but you may need to take a step back from the relationship for you both to breath. When it comes to saving a marriage, you need to put some space between the two partners.

This doesn’t mean you have to move out, however, you need to back off with the romance and try to open up with each other. Talking can help resolve a lot of issues in a marriage; however, you have to talk openly to them. You have to learn how to listen and to send positive and clear messages.

Even though it can be hard to back off with wanting to be intimate, you will find that it will pay off in the end. You will be able to get to the wild bedroom behavior once you have been able to reconnect to your wife. Once you have reconnected to her, she’ll be more likely to want to be with you and more open to your intimate ideas and feelings. When you have a basis of trust and deep admiration you will find that the intimacy will be better than ever.

The key to saving a marriage is to get to the point where you both were happy. You need to make sure that you talk about the things that you are concerned with and the things that they are concerned with. You will want to make sure that you are open to your partner so that you can get to the core of your troubles.

Once you have opened up to the communication channels, you can then open up about things like your sex. It’s all one-step at a time. Once you have a basis of understanding then you are able to build on that.

Once you have talked things through and have allowed a basis for a marriage, you can then start adding of your other concerns. Things like talking to your partner about the lack of excitement, the lack of pleasure, or even the lack of feeling wanted yourself.

There are many men who think that their mate does not feel attracted to them, but there are a lot of women with the same insecurities.

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As you grow and further your commitment to each other, you also need to keep the communication open so that you two can grow together. Once you have fixed your marriage, you constantly have to keep up with the marriage. You need to always be putting in effort to the relationship. You need to always be trying to keep interest in each other and keep the excitement in the relationship.

When serious problems arise, you have to think about all the things that your mate must be feeling and allow her to have her feelings, but take a genuine step towards making that concern strength to your marriage. Remember, men and women see and think in a different light and if you are able to see the problem in both of our eyes, then your marriage will be saved.

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